Traveling Parent Tips
It is very difficult for parents who have kids to stay away from home without the kids. It does not depend much on the time you will be away from each other, but it is usually a challenging experience. The feeling of the kid being left by the parent is mutual. Since there is very little you can do about it, the tips below can help the experience be less inconveniencing. One of the key tips that you should be aware of is when to let the child know about your upcoming trip. The age of the child and his temperament should guide you. Preschoolers and toddlers don’t figure out the concept of time and even some lower primary kids find it hard to differentiate days from weeks. Since most young children tend to be extremely anxious about their parents leaving, it is advisable to reduce the span of time you make them aware of your leaving so that the length of time to worry will be greatly reduced. Since older kids don’t rely much on their parents, they are less vulnerable to the traveling parents as compared to younger kids. However, once you realize that you have to leave instantly, ensure that you let your child know immediately and stay as calm as possible.
Ensure the child knows when you are leaving and where you will be going. The child should most importantly know when you will be back. You can just mark the date of departure and return dates on the colorful calendar. By use of location maps and photos, you can disclose to the child where you will be. For the older kids, you can just tell them the name of the place you will be. It is crucial to assure your child that you will keep in touch and know their status while you are away. It is good to find out where the child would like to stay when you are away and make sure you agree with her in good terms. By just having a parent away alone is very difficult, so you should not dare make any additional alterations that might interrupt your kid’s life. Let the babysitter know what is expected of her when you are away.
By so doing, you will reduce the separation anxiety. Bedtime can be a bit stressful. Some of the harsh goodbyes that can do more harm than good include sneaking away, acting anxiously, prolonging the departure or even showing how guilt you are. It is not good to limit communication over the phone, Skype or any video chat just for the purpose of keeping in touch and bonding as a family. However, you should not allow persistent calling or nagging as it can make it hard for you to attend to the responsibilities that took you away there. It is advisable to show the babysitter or whoever is taking care of the child that you trust her completely. Make your child that she is important to you by bring souvenirs to her and sharing your experiences with her.